I’m still sitting in the armchair doing Pre-Morning Things again, so this is Before Day 2.
Today I’m thinking about meetings.
When I’m in a meeting at person, I have to do at least moderate performative attention-paying (ditto for training). I have to look at the person and pretend I’m making eye contact and try not to look too distracted.
I mean, I generally doodle maps, as anyone who has seen me post “in a meeting” maps can tell, or if I’m too close to the presenter, I just doodle generally, but there has to be some looking at them. And, in general, I have to TRY not to look too bored.
When I’m working from home, I get to do something to distract the bouncy half of my brain while the other half listens. Performative attention-paying is “make sure I formulate an interesting question and ask it at least once” which I try to do in meetings/training anyway. When it’s interesting meeting/training I can engage pretty well and I don’t get talked over or interrupted in chat the same way.
(grumble grumble grumble)
And when it’s three stultifying hours of meetings I am in to show willing… well, let’s just say there’s been a lot of progress on my Minecraft railroads and stations.
That’s a long way of saying meetings are nicer by Zoom when you are an introvert with ADHD.
(And life is easier in general once I learned those were things about myself that were both true and acceptable, or at least, that *I* could accept them and the rest of the world could be faked around easily enough.)
The Dilbert will continue until morale improves.
What’s your favorite or least favorite thing about telecommute meetings?